Melinda had a thriving life—a five-bedroom home, children in private school, and a successful business. But everything changed after her release from federal prison for tax fraud.
Melinda’s spouse and children had moved on during her incarceration, and she found herself alone and houseless. Due to laws requiring the formally incarcerated to have a physical address, Melinda had only one option: move-in with a former, abusive partner.
In her search for stability, Melinda found a job at a convenience store, while seeking affordable housing through Inclusionary Zoning and other programs. Unfortunately, even with available concessions, housing remained unattainable—a stark reminder of the broader systemic issues surrounding affordable housing.
Her former partner, now living with Melinda during the height of the pandemic, abused her sexually, mentally, and financially. Reporting the violence to the police only intensified the threats. After losing her job due to her abuser’s interference and living out of her truck, Melinda took a courageous step: to seek help at a shelter.
At House of Ruth, Melinda found not just shelter, but a second chance. She was placed in a safe, stable apartment, fully furnished and equipped with essential resources—food, mental health services, and employment support. With the help of her case manager, she learned about programs that would allow her to care for her elderly mother while receiving financial compensation
Reflecting on her journey, Melinda emphasizes the necessity of shelter. “Shelter isn’t just a need; it’s essential—like food and water. I never thought I would be houseless. I’ve met people from all walks of life who’ve become unhoused due to job loss or abuse and it has changed my entire perspective. I am humbled.”
Today, Melinda continues to grow, learning about the importance of counseling, mental health, and self-care through House of Ruth’s support. Her steady income as a caretaker has aided her in securing her own apartment.
“The things I once felt ashamed of may help save someone else’s life. House of Ruth changed my life on a level that can’t be quantified. This experience has given me the courage to share my story,” she says.
You are now part of Melinda’s story, because you enable House of Ruth to provide the essential services and programs that enabled Melinda to grasp opportunities. During Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we thank you for standing with House of Ruth, for standing with survivors. Please consider a monthly donation. Because Domestic Violence Awareness Month is only once a year, but the need for our work and impact is every day, all year.
*Name has been changed to protect privacy. The included photo may not picture the individuals featured in the story. The photo is of actual House of Ruth program participants.
